The Most Important Things Elementary Kids Should Know When They Graduate

Give kids a strong spiritual foundation to build their lives on!
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Elementary kids are part of a unique generation who are the first to be born into a social media and technologically connected world, with screens and electronic devices available from birth.

They are part of what is known as Generation Z, which includes kids born between 1994 and 2012.

Generation Z kids are more likely than any other generation to claim no religious identity and to not regularly attend a church. They are known as the “nones[1]”, which simply means they are religiously unaffiliated.

They are also more biblically and spiritually illiterate than any other generation[2]. These kids are curious about life and its meaning, as they seek for truth and belonging.

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Building a Strong Spiritual Foundation

The best way we can help this generation of kids and prepare them for their future is by giving them a strong spiritual foundation, which they can build their lives upon.

In children’s ministry, our main goal is not just to teach kids a list of specific things and get them to know information, but to change their lives by helping them know, love, and follow Jesus.

As you’re teaching, keep in mind the ultimate goal is connecting kids to Christ and His saving grace. But how do we know if our children’s ministry is effective and if kids are growing in discipleship and building a solid foundation and understanding of faith?

Faith Formation Matters

Discipleship is faith formation, and we can start discipleship with even the youngest kids in our ministries.

There are basic principles, concepts, and Scriptural knowledge kids needs to understand to help ensure your children’s ministry is teaching kids the most important things for a strong faith.

As you’re teaching, keep in mind the ultimate goal is connecting kids to Christ and His saving grace.

When we teach with the end in mind, we have a target and a goal for each lesson, and we are more intentional and strategic with our time with kids.

Here are suggestions for how you can help ensure you’re building the strong spiritual foundation the kids in your ministry need.

Benchmarks and Milestones for Parents

One goal of children’s ministry is to empower parents as spiritual leaders. Your children’s ministry can come alongside parents at multiple stages of parenting to equip them, celebrate with them, and encourage them.

This list of milestones and benchmarks can help guide you as you partner with parents.

Child Dedication

This can be done in any way your church does child dedications.

Preschool Graduation/Welcome to Elementary Ministry

Whenever your church allows kids to be promoted to your elementary ministry, make sure you celebrate with parents. You can also do a back-to-school dedication or prayer time with families.

Salvation and Baptism

When a child makes a faith commitment and decides to get baptized, you can celebrate and include parents in the process.

Bible and Devotional Time at Home

Your children’s ministry can recommend or even give parents a family devotional or a children’s Bible. Look for ways to encourage them to spend time at home studying the Word together as a family.

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Family Worship Environments

On a regular basis, your church can host an event or a worship experience to bring families together to learn the Bible, worship together, or even serve the community together through an outreach event.

Elementary Graduation

When kids graduate from the children’s ministry into the youth ministry, this can be a time of celebration, prayer, and worship for kids and parents.

Theology for Kids

We might think of theology, which means the study of God, as something mostly for adults, but it’s essential to teach age-appropriate theology to kids, even kids as young as babies!

Be intentional and make the most of the time you have with the kids in your children’s ministry.

This is a (non-exhaustive) list of the theological concepts the kids in your children’s ministry need to know:

Creation

God created the world and everything in it. Genesis 1:1-31.

The Nature of God

Use God statements with students. Some examples are God is holy; God is good; and God is everywhere. Others include: God is loving; God is provider; and God is healer. God is all-powerful; God is forgiving; and God is eternal.

This book is a good resource.

The Trinity

*Note: This is one of the most difficult concepts for kids (and even adults) to grasp. Kids are concrete thinkers, and the Trinity is an abstract concept.

It’s helpful to use object lessons and illustrations when teaching the Triune God. Deuteronomy 6:4; Ephesians 2:18; John 1:1; Hebrews 9:14; Matthew 28:19.

Our Identity in God/Made in His Image

God created humans in His image and likeness. Genesis 1:26-28; Psalm 139:13-14.

Sin, Total Depravity, and The Fall

When Adam and Eve ate the fruit, sin entered the world. We are all born with a sinful nature, and we cannot save ourselves. Genesis 3: 1-24; Romans 3:23; Romans 5:12; and Romans 6:23.

The Bible Is God’s Word

The Bible is inspired by God and is His truth, promises, and instructions for us. Hebrews 4:12; 2 Timothy 3:16-17; 1 Thessalonians 2:13.

The Birth of Jesus

Jesus was fully God and fully human. He was born to Mary, a virgin. Luke 2:1-40.

Jesus’ Temptation

Jesus was tempted, but He never sinned. Jesus is perfect. Mark 4.

The Crucifixion and Resurrection

Jesus was innocent, but He was killed for our sins, died on the cross, and put in the tomb. And then he rose from the dead. Luke 22, 23, 24.

Redemption and Salvation

We can be forgiven and saved from our sins through the sacrifice and forgiveness of Jesus. John 3:16-17; Romans 6:23; Ephesians 2:8-9; 2 Corinthians 5:17; Colossians 1:13-14.

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Eternity in Heaven or Separation from God

Those who trust in Jesus for salvation will be with God in heaven for eternity, and those who do not will be separated from God forever. Revelation 20:15; John 14:2-3; Matthew 10:28; John 3:16-17.

Restoration/The Return of Jesus

In the future, believers will be restored to God and sin will be no more. Jesus will return, and God will make a new heaven and a new Earth. Revelation 21:3-4; 1 Corinthians 15:35-58; Revelation 19:11-16.

Bible Basics

The goal of teaching the Bible is not for kids to memorize every detail of the Bible or to be able to regurgitate information.

Rather, the goal is for them to understand the overall story of redemption and how every part of the Bible connects to the Gospel.

Kids need to understand that the Bible is a story—the true story of the only true hero. For more encouragement to help awaken and direct the wonder kids are already filled with, check out How to Smuggle the Gospel through the Imagination to the Heart.

This list of stories from the Bible is not exhaustive by any means, but it is a helpful guide of important stories to make sure kids know. Repetition is key for kids in learning and understanding, so these are all stories or concepts worth repeating in your children’s ministry.

  • The Books of the Bible
  • The Names of the Four Gospels
  • The Lord’s Prayer
  • The Ten Commandments
  • Creation
  • The Fall
  • Noah’s Ark
  • Moses and The Exodus
  • Life of Abraham
  • Life of David
  • Esther Saves Her People
  • Minor and Major Prophets
  • Daniel in the Den of Lions
  • Prophecies about Jesus
  • Jesus’ Birth
  • Jesus’ Baptism
  • The Disciples
  • Jesus’ Miracles
  • The Sermon on the Mount
  • Jesus and the Children
  • The Last Supper
  • Jesus’ Death and Resurrection
  • The Greatest Commandment
  • The Ascension and the Great Commission
  • The Early Church
  • The Conversion of Paul
  • The Armor of God
  • The Fruit of the Spirit
  • The Return of Jesus

Spiritual Formation and Discipleship

Once kids have an understanding of who God is, it’s important to give them tools and an understanding of how to have a deeper relationship with Him and become more like Him.

Before kids graduate from your children’s ministry, they need to know and understand:

  • How to study the Bible
  • Why and how to memorize Scripture
  • Why and how to pray
  • What worship is and the importance and meaning of it
  • Why Jesus is deserving of our wonder and love
  • What it means to have a heart to love and serve others
  • The purpose of Baptism and the Lord’s Supper
  • The importance of community and the local church
  • The role of the Holy Spirit in their everyday lives

Ministry and Serving God

It’s important to teach kids not only who God is, but how they can be used by Him and make a difference for Him. It’s important to teach them how to be compassionate.

Kids don’t have to wait until they grow up before they serve God and share His love with others; they can serve Him right now! Kids need to know and understand:

  • What their spiritual gifts are and how to use them. This book includes good information for teaching kids about spiritual gifts and helping them discover and use their gifts.
  • Tithes and Offerings. You can use these ten object lessons and illustrations when teaching kids about giving.
  • The Great Commission and Missions Work: Compassion International and Child Evangelism Fellowship are good resources.
  • Evangelism and Sharing the Gospel: There are some great resources here.
  • Serving others in the church and in the community: Your church can do service projects or partner with local organizations to serve people in need. Check out these 42 ideas, or explore hosting a food packing event.

Helping Kids Transition to Youth Ministry

The best way to help kids make a successful transition to youth ministry is by working together with the youth ministry and including the youth ministry leaders in your ministry to preteens while they are still part of your children’s ministry.

Generation Z has incredible potential to actually change the world.

Take time to learn about the youth services and include elements in parts of the children’s ministry services for kids who are getting close to the transition.

You can incorporate some of the worship songs, games, teaching style, or small group elements from the youth ministry.

Invite the youth ministry leaders to meet with your preteens and start building relationships with them before they transition to youth ministry.

Teaching Generation Z

Although Generation Z is the most technologically connected and advanced generation while being religiously apathetic, they are also driven, diverse, curious, and creative.

They are full of wonder, excitement, and hope. Generation Z has incredible potential to actually change the world.

It’s our job to not only teach them information, but to model the love of God for them and to help them understand why it’s so important to believe in God. It’s also important in helping us help them hear their callings!

We can create environments in which they can personally connect with God and build authentic relationships with others. Our teaching doesn’t have to be flashy or impressive, but it does have to be intentional, authentic, and purposeful.

We only have a short amount of time to influence and pour into these kids and ingrain God’s love and truth in their hearts, so let’s be ready to make the most of it.

By using this guide and making a plan to include each of these concepts in your ministry regularly, you can be intentional and make the most of the time you have with the kids in your children’s ministry.

And check out these free lessons to use with your students, too!


[1] https://www.focusonthefamily.com/faith/the-rise-of-the-nones/

[2] Meet Generation Z, James Emery White

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66 Short Bible Verses Perfect for Kids to Memorize

Memorized verses are the rails the Spirit’s instructions run on. How much track have we laid? Download this guide on Short Bible Verses. With 1 verse from every book, kids will learn to hide God’s Word in their hearts!
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66 Short Bible Verses Perfect for Kids to Memorize

Memorized verses are the rails the Spirit’s instructions run on. How much track have we laid? Download this guide on Short Bible Verses. With 1 verse from every book, kids will learn to hide God’s Word in their hearts!
Free Guide
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66 Short Bible Verses Perfect for Kids to Memorize

Memorized verses are the rails the Spirit’s instructions run on. How much track have we laid? Download this guide on Short Bible Verses. With 1 verse from every book, kids will learn to hide God’s Word in their hearts!
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  Updated on December 20, 2019

About the Author

  • Lynne has worked in children's ministry for over a decade and was the first Lead Editor of Children’s Ministry Resources for Stuff You Can Use. She has also written and created a number of her own children’s ministry resources and articles at lynnehoward.com. She’s the mama of two amazing toddlers and loves making delicious healthy foods and listening to Southern Gospel music. She’s passionate about reaching children for Jesus and training and developing leaders to do the same. She believes church should be a place where kids can have fun as they experience and learn to live for God.

    If you’d like to connect with Lynne, you can find her at lynnehoward.com or on social media @lynnehoward7.

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